The only Blogger blog I seem to be able to get into is he-who-supplies-word’s, blog. Will read blogs on Friday.
He supplies the words and the rules. I keep the words but make up my own rules, because I have never been a rules girl. Even for ones as simple as Bone’s. Not that he is a simple person.
Nice girls go to heaven. Good girls go everywhere
A well known saying that was first embroidered on pillows sold in a shop on Madison Avenue between 62nd and 63rd Streets, circa 1976
Lianna had built a small empire around Good Girls Go Everywhereâ„¢ The initial book came out in that mystifying year 1980, when 22 year old college grad girls would wear buttoned up Tuxedo shirts, bow ties and dress for success suits. To make matters worst, during the transit strike, they made walking in suits, white socks and white Nike’s fashionable. Nike made black sneakers. Pantyhose came in every color. There was no excuse for such horrible fashion debacles.
Lianna immediately understood that her type of girl needed stoking after they walked miles home. They needed reassurance. They needed a firm but sweet voice telling them that it was more than OK to be a girl who liked to dress in lace.
Lianna demystified life for them. Just because a girl, usually called woman then, worked at a good job didn’t mean she had to sacrifice her identity. Lianna, nicely, designed a collection of go anywhere suits. If girls kept the jacket buttoned during the day, the rayon or silk suits made them look like a CEO. They came with skinny fitted blouses, tees and lace camisoles. She even persuaded Nike to come out with lace sneakers color coordinated to the suits.
Girls could go everywhere as long as they remembered that girls didn’t have to hide their femininity to make it to the top. Lianna idolized Diane Van Furstenberg who made dresses that enhanced attributes. She couldn’t understand why girls had suddenly become adverse to looking like girls.
Lianna had bustier and Marilyn dresses she wore proudly with lace socks, and Candie cork sandals. She didn’t want other girls to dress like her. She wanted them all to revel in their femininity. She wanted girls to feel good about themselves. She wanted girls to become CEO’s, wives, mothers, and princesses. She worked with the zeal of a convert or revolutionary.
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Good Girls Go Everywhere â„¢ became a mantra. There was only one rule; good girls never forget they make the world go round. Later, sex is wonderful as long as it’s safe was added.
Lianna wrote a book on the lost art of dating. She had learned the secret from her sister, Hollis, who had only three dateless, or not in relationship, nights since she was twelve in 1966.
Lianna was an expert on marriage as she had first been married at 19, and divorced three years later in a quickie divorce in the Dominican Republic so she could marry her second husband Charles. He was killed in a car accident seven years later.
She edited the baby book and had mothers talk about their experiences. Lianna had miscarried after Charles’s accident. But that’s when the transit strike began and she realized how pitiful girls then called women appeared.
They looked as if they had no faith in themselves. Older men laughed at them. Until Lianna told them they didn’t know that they were hiding their true self behind a shield of false professionalism. Oh did they listen to Lianna’s voice.
Lianna’s clothing business expanded to all types of clothes as long as they had some sort of funk appeal. The perfect sheets she had never seen but dreamed of were designed. A make up, skin care and perfume line were inevitable.
When girls began nesting or just couch potatoing Lianna worked with a furniture company to make interesting furniture in great colors.
One of her big missions was to make single girls live in apartments that looked like homes and not half way stops to marriage, or a place to sleep in between work, the gym, other activities and dates. Personally she found it pathetic when a 40 year old slept in a single bed in a one bedroom apartment, or slept in the sofa in a studio when so many great alternatives were available, thanks to Lianna. Lianna’s Good Girl paints for walls were a smash. She made sconces and other pretty accent items.
Since girls were spending more time at home she thought they should know how to cook simple food that looked like it took hours and experimented with recipes that she put in her cook book. It was easy to start a line of prepared foods only sold in select stores.
Lianna and Hollis’s father had brought them up to be financially independent. She couldn’t understand why girls would waste a thousand dollars on many small items but be afraid to spend a thousand on something tangible. She wrote books on finance.
Lianna didn’t understand girls were so scared to travel alone. She made girls proud solo travelers.
There wasn’t one aspect of a girls life not covered by Lianna. Now she was writing and lecturing on enjoying middle age even though so many middle aged people were living non-traditional lives. The children might be young, the husband out of the picture, the girl’s mother elderly and dependent, the money not great, but the not so young girl was still going to feel empowered.
She began a line of diet foods, nutritional supplements and other things important to growing older.
One day Lianna felt as if she had been left holding a bag that weighed two tons, had 20 dead bodies and an ocean of regrets.
She had spent almost 30 years making two and a half generations of girls/women feeling financially and otherwise empowered in beautiful clothes with beautiful furniture in a beautiful house.
Who was she to have been so brazen? What gave her the right to decide other women’s lifestyles? Yes, she had spoke in her firm yet soft voice and they had come.
Yes, nobody made them come. Why had she felt so entitled?
Lianna had been so sure of herself. For the first time she questioned her motives.
April 1, was the 27th anniversary of the first New York Transit Strike. Some of us remember it fondly. Except for the white sock and white Nike’s when Nike did make black ones. I have never gotten over that.
I feel strange for having posted this.
I never should write when under the effects of refined flour, and Passover’s all about that. The Ashkenazi Jewish food I mean, not the meaning of the holiday. Sephardic or Spanish and Mid Eastern Jewish food is incredible. I speak as a member of the first group. The inventors of matzoh balls and chopped liver. It’s good but there’s a reason my grandfathers died in their 50′s.




nice tie into the history of the strike. I’ll have to go over to Bone’s and check out the 3WW.
Pantyhose came in every color. There was no excuse for such horrible fashion debacles.
ROFL
I loved this part, Pia. Hi-lar-i-ous.
I’d much prefer (and do much prefer) the Sephardic diet. In fact, a factoid that came up at the first Seder was that as a religious group, Jews are the thinnest people. I said that it must be the Sephardic side bringing down the averages because the Ashkenazi diet, well as you mentioned, is not exactly health food.
Well, I was planning to quote the line Traveling Chica did. That made me chuckle out loud.
Also loved this line: She wanted girls to become CEO’s, wives, mothers, and princesses.
Living in New York is like living in another world compared to mid-America. I close my eyes and wish I had been there.
Your fiction always reads like it’s real, which I think is one of the toughest parts of writing fiction.
I googled Lianna and “good girls go everywhere” to see if it was a real story. It brought me back here