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May
01

I’m participating in<em> #blog2012 <a href=”http://http://michellerafter.com/”>blog2012!</a></em> I can’t get this to link properly. Story of my life

It was a hot June night. Not hot as in oppressive, I want to die weather like today, but hot enough. In New York, the hottest part of the day is always dusk when the heat’s had time to settle on the cement, and the buildings seem to ooze both heat and drops of hot water from the air conditioners. The steam rises both from the street, and subway gratings, and it can feel as if you’re trapped in a manhole cover or a pot of not quite boiling water. One thing you learn in New York early and never forget: heat rises.

I was wearing a blue with little pink and yellow flowers bustier dress; the skirt flowed like a Marilyn dress. Here comes the big confession: sometimes when I would a dress like that I wouldn’t wear underwear; go commando as it’s called now. But, and this is a big but, I had a two piece bathing suit that almost exactly matched the dress; only the flowers were a bit larger. That morning in a burst of clothing creativity, I decided to wear the bottom as underwear. To make the dress work appropriate I had worn a blue silk fitted jacket that I had left at the studio.

Noel was walking to my right, and Lucia to my right. The subway grating was right underneath me. The fire station bells began ringing as it did whenever notable people passed it. I couldn’t understand why suddenly Lucia and Noel were trying to tame my dress that was whirling with the blast of hot air from the subway. Their faces had turned bright red, and not from the heat.

Something made me turn around, and face three very well dressed men who were trying not to smile. Two of the men were young, very good looking; “bodyguards,” I thought before my brain had time to register exactly who they were guarding. Or maybe I really didn’t want to realize this. I thought of something clever to say, but before I could say it I began laughing. Real laughter; not girly giggles or shameful bursts of restrained laughter that turns into coughing fits. I knew that as long as I lived I would never forget this meeting. But I just couldn’t stop laughing; the six of us were standing on Lafayette Street, laughing until tears came.

And that’s how I met the man for whom the bells were tolling; the boss of bosses himself, John Gotti, shortly before he went to prison.
If Lucia comments, and she will, do not believe her version. I wasn’t just wearing underpants, I was wearing a shield of armor, a belly covering bathing suit bottom.

No I don’t approve of him or anything he did. Just getting that out of the way. But it’s a hell of a story.

Mar
29

When I began this blog my niece was ten and not the most mature ten.

Now she’s an incredibly mature seventeen year old who has to make her first major life decision: Barnard or Tufts?

I think I know what the answer will be but both sound great to me. I’m so so so proud!

She’s so Zooey!

Feb
03

I haven’t even been putting in links to my Psychology Today posts
The top one is probably my best! This is my newest

Though Susan G Komen retracted its very political and very wrong decision this blogger will be sending money to Planned Parenthood. I think I have a story in the archives somewhere about being eighteen and needing to find out if I was pregnant or not. If not I will hopefully write it this weekend

Planned Parenthood was there as it was there for exams and questions I didn’t want to ask my mother. I do wish Planned Parenthood offered mammograms as many insurance companies still don’t cover them and so many people are without any health insurance. You shouldn’t have to risk bankruptcy if you get sick before 2014. My insurance covers so little it scares me yet is almost $500 a month–older and pre-existing conditions.

This is an incredible and incredibly flawed country that panders to the right. This week we showed the power of Facebook, Twitter and Tumblr. It was amazing to look at my Facebook wall and see almost all statuses in support of Planned Parenthood.

Jan
11

My newest and favorite post for Psychology Today

Dec
19

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09

Nov
29

I have about 36 newly found but not met nieces and nephews. I call the one I know, as she’s from the family I have known all my life, 37. After I spoke to bio half-bro I was so freaked out from learning about the size of the family and that he not only hunts but makes his own gun powder and uses a bow and arrow I ran into her room.

Fortunately 37 is very mature. She looks just like the Deschanel sisters, Zoey and Emily but for some unknown reason my brother-in-law doesn’t want to know what 37 will look like when she’s in her 30′s and pregnant.

For those of you who have read Courting since its inception year, 37, then a little kid, will be going to college next year. Being one of us she likes to make life hard for herself and refused to apply to one school early admission but is applying to schools all over the North East. Because of me she’s a legacy to one of them! Unfortunately it’s not NYU which I left after one year. Kind of wish I had stayed so it could have been grandfather, daughter, and niece at the same school.

I don’t generally write about her as I have this grossly outmoded belief in privacy. I can talk about me but nobody else in depth. I can talk about the dead but that’s funny–generally they have living significant others, siblings and/or parents who somehow figure into every story. That does limit personal blogging a lot.

Oh Thanksgiving dinner was great as were the other ten days. I went to a new store in Huntington that only sells many types of olive oil and balsamic vinegar. I could taste them all but stopped after fig and vanilla balsamic as I was so overwhelmed!

Nov
10

Psychology Today

Oct
31

I wish my parents, those people who raised me, were here to tell me how much they approve of my finding new family. It would have been easier had they still been alive.

Sep
26

I just wrote a post that was so bad even copious editing couldn’t save it. There will be a new post later this week or next week. But Psychology Today comes first as people actually read that!

My sinus infection is impeding my productivity and making me hate mommy bloggers and mommy’s who love to test my knowledge of NLD on Facebook groups. As I don’t want to hate mommy’s and actually like them I think it best for me to stay away until the antibiotics kick in!

I need sun. I will be the first person (in many years) to die of “it rained for 40 days and 40 nights and her body was screaming ‘sun, sun, sun come out. I need you.”

And if you’re a mommy who likes to test me and then basically say “I was just playing,” I wish you well because you need all the good karma you can get.