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		<title>They say there&#039;s no such thing as an original idea but I thought of it first</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 02:53:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Please give us Democrats who have been doing battle with the radical right a few more weeks to celebrate our decisive victory. I would love 2012 to be an election where both the Democrats and Republicans have candidates worthy of a presidential election. I always thought that Hillary Clinton didn&#8217;t want to be senator and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Please give us Democrats who have been doing battle with the radical right a few more weeks to celebrate our decisive victory.  I would love 2012 to be an election where both the Democrats and Republicans have candidates worthy of a presidential election.<br />
I always thought that Hillary Clinton didn&#8217;t want to be senator and used it for a presidential bid.  <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/16/opinion/16dowd.html?ref=opinion">Maureen Dowd</a> agrees with me.  Unfortunately she used her seat at the expense of New Yorkers.  I do think she would make a great Secretary of State or Supreme Court Justice.<br />
Here&#8217;s <a href="http://cavett.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/11/14/the-wild-wordsmith-of-wasilla/">Dick Cavett</a> quoting &#8220;the wild wordsmith of Wasilla. Her quote is so over the top I didn&#8217;t dare put it in for fear of being accused of falling for a hoax.  But if Bill O&#8217;Reilly defends Carl Cameron for leaking it who am I  not to mention it.  Cavett is an exceptional writer, and please read this for a great look at Sarah Palin who not only doesn&#8217;t know that Africa isn&#8217;t a country but defends this lack.</p>
<p>I very much support all the<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/16/us/16protest.html?hp"> protests today is support of same-sex marriage.</a>  Here&#8217;s where I get in trouble with just about everybody as I&#8217;m not a big believer in marriage for anybody but it legalizes and simplifies too many things to enumerate. For some reason I have always felt this way even when I played the part of starry-eyed ingenue.  A part I mastered and kept up for many years.</p>
<p>I have been meaning to write a post on how Lucia, my bff, and I were walking up Steinway Street in Astoria Queens many years ago.  We passed a wedding dress shop that had the tackiest wedding dress in the window.  We both wanted it.</p>
<p>Lucia and I had passed the girlfriend fight part of our friendship; we had passed the petty jealousy stage and others and were now into what we called &#8220;the old shoe&#8221; stage.  We were comfortable with each other.</p>
<p>And so in 1985, years before we ever heard of same-sex marriage, two straight women decided the only way to resolve the wedding dress problem was to get married.</p>
<p>We told everybody.  We planned the wedding.  We did everything but actually have it.  Recently I was watching </em><em><a href="http://www.cbs.com/primetime/old_christine/">The New Adventures</a> of Old Christine</em> Christine (Julia Louis-Dreyfus) proposed to Barb (Wanda Sykes) to keep her from being deported to the Bahamas.  They went through with it.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the second thing I have seen on <em>The New Adventures of&#8230;.</em> I thought of first.  The first being birthday month, which in recent years I have turned into birthday summer.  (I have birthday month in the archives somewhere written long before this show was seen.)</p>
<p>Life&#8217;s unfair but I want credit so if I&#8217;m not around the blogosphere much, well I haven&#8217;t been this past year because selling my apartment was so nerve wracking.  This year I won&#8217;t be because I&#8217;m actually writing a book I don&#8217;t want to share until it&#8217;s safely written and published.</p>
<p>Usually I tell my ideas as I used to think they were too quirky to steal.  Oh have I learned and I&#8217;m not talking <em>New Adventures&#8230;.</em></p>
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		<title>Your Day Awayâ„¢ 2008</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 20:16:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s much about the bail out plan I don&#8217;t approve and find scary. But I have gone through about twelve days like Monday in the past ten months and find them even scarier. A bit of me wishes this apartment sale hadn&#8217;t gone through as I can easily find a decent job in New York. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>There&#8217;s much about the bail out plan I don&#8217;t approve and find scary.  But I have gone through about twelve days like Monday in the past ten months and find them even scarier.  A bit of me wishes this apartment sale hadn&#8217;t gone through as I can easily find a decent job in New York.  And while I&#8217;m not as scared as I was Monday I&#8217;m frightened.  I have big loss days and they come back somewhat but never fully.  I&#8217;m diversified.  I sold some stuff to stop the hemorrhaging.  Still it was worse than ever on Monday.  I really enjoyed this <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/01/business/economy/01leonhardt.html?_r=1&amp;hp&amp;oref=slogin">article</a><br />
.  And I know it was my choice to live a life outside the mainstream.  I haven&#8217;t really really wondered about that until this past weekend.  And then came Monday.  I&#8217;m better now.  What will be will be.  I&#8217;m relatively young, healthy and capable of earning a living.  It will be on my terms as the move is so I&#8217;m damn lucky and never ever forget that</p>
<p>This has been a seriously weird year as more than anything, almost, I care about my writing.  I did get thrown off track when I became a political blogger four years ago but I always kept writing.<br />
Selling the apartment while there was still a market for imperfect one bedrooms became the focal point of my life. I know many writers will say I&#8217;m not really a writer as I didn&#8217;t practice every day&#8211;but I did write things for publication.  I guess being out of the blogging game makes everything feel strange to me as it was a centering point.  Then it wasn&#8217;t&#8230;.I will be writing more and talking less about it.<br />
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In two weeks two days&#8211;but who is counting?&#8211;I begin a new life.</p>
<p>While I look for a house I will also be a coordinator for <a href="http://www.yourdayaway.com/"><br />
Your Day Awayâ„¢ 2008.</a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s similar to the Make a Wish foundation but for caretakers of people with disabilities.  If anybody knows a family, in the Myrtle Beach area, please let me know.  Same with hotels, restaurants, uh theme parks and dinner theaters</p>
<p>Your Day Awayâ„¢ 2008 will coincide with the publication of the book &#8220;Alphabet Kids: From ADD To Zellweger Syndrome: A Guide to Developmental, Neurobiological and Psychological Disorders For Parents and Professionals&#8221; by Robbie Woliver, published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers, November 15, 2008.</p>
<p>I have known Robbie since I was eighteen and wrote the intro to the chapter on NLD.  It&#8217;s some of my best writing ever.  Still I have to buy my own copy&#8230;.</p>
<p>Robbie has always found my e_sistental crises funny, though he was a prime person in the campaign to keep me in New York.  A lot of people like me in Manhattan.  Sometimes I feel like a caged animal in the zoo</p>
<p>That does give me the right to say I strongly believe in term limits.  I understand that this recent Wall Street mess was without precedent and hit too many of us in our pocketbooks.  The last thing most people in the city need is a seven percent increase in property ta_es, effective immediately.  I understand that property ta_es are low.</p>
<p>However when you sell you give the city 1.45% for any sale over 500K and one percent for any sale under that.  Combined with a state ta_ of two dollars for every five hundred, a building &#8220;flip&#8221; ta_.  In my case of two percent, a si_ percent fee to the realtor and assorted other fees the net profit is way lower than the gross.</p>
<p>I think that&#8217;s all fair providing that property and other ta_es aren&#8217;t increased.  You know that the price of fuel and everything else will go up drastically.</p>
<p>That said I can&#8217;t imagine loving anyplace the way I do Manhattan and uh Long Island and I hope that my<del datetime="2008-09-30T19:04:05+00:00"> enforced,</del> asked for volunteer job at Your Day Away will help provide a bridge to my new community.</p>
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