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If Oprah says it's okay to distort truth in memoirs

January 14, 2006 By pia

On the line at B&N yesterday, a woman pointed to the 20 percent off James Frey’s A million little pieces:
“Twenty percent off for fiction.”

It was funny and I laughed. Nobody else got it.

Here’s Oprah on James Frey:

“What is relevant is that he was a drug addict . . . and stepped out of that history to be the man he is today and to take that message to save other people and allow them to save themselves,” Winfrey said. “To those who got hope from the book, I say, Keep holding on.” Frey has been under intense scrutiny since The Smoking Gun investigative Web site posted a story Sunday alleging the author had substantially fabricated his criminal record and other aspects of his past in writing about his battle with drugs and alcohol.

To all of us who are working on memoirs the above is both confusing and sad. Why should I keep writing the truth in my memoir? Why don’t I manufacture stories. Of course, dialogue is invented at times. I have my father and a few other people down perfectly; it’s not usually that easy. i constantly work at it.

People who are honest are at a distinct disadvantage in our society. We’re just not sexy enough; we’re not dramatic enough. Our reality show, interesting, painful, honest as it might be isn’t reality show material.

I would have assumed that Oprah would want to “reward” people in our society who have overcome dark places without resorting to manufacturing arrest records. Frey said that he had been too high to remember certain things so he took dramatic license. How is that inspiring? Unless it’s supposed to inspire people to lie; then it is. It’s not just the story but the story’s veracity that should inspire. I could write my story in a month, if I didn’t stop to examine each piece, how I perceive it, what I think the truth is, what I think others thought. All in the name of truly understanding my truth.

There’s an ongoing debate about creative non-fiction. How fictionalized do you go in non fiction? Of course there could be made up scenes and there always is the authors perception of the truth; but that doesn’t include lying, or so I thought. It’s painful to really write truth about ones life. Very painful; and so I try to balance the pain I am re-subjecting myself to with humor. But never with lies.

When I was adopted, my family was lied to. When I was four and my family moved, I would tell my friends that I had been adopted. I was four; I thought it was a good thing and not something to be hid. My parents learned to expect calls from my friends parents asking if I lied. Fit in too well with my family, couldn’t have been telling the truth.

That helped shaped my world view; and my life has been a constant search for truth. I have a condition that wasn’t diagnosed; though they didn’t have a name for it, people knew that conditions like mine existed. But not in my case. Only boys had real learning disabilities then; I must have been lazy and lying when I said that I studied.

Hell, I entered my Junior High and it was as if a big L was put on my chest.
“Pia, nobody here only has one TV set; and everybody has color sets, not black and white.”

The teacher who said that when I was in Eighth Grade then considered everything I said to be suspect. She’s still in the school in a much higher position. It was okay to accuse me of lying; to accuse me of many things. I was heavy, called myself fat but by today’s standards, I was svelte. I was sloppy and couldn’t speak in class because my mouth would become dry.

They couldn’t leave me back or put me in the dumb class; my test scores were too high as were some of my grades. But the teachers could ensure that I suffered and they did. My school’s motto must have been:
“If you can’t pigeon hole them, make them as miserable as possible.”

By tenth grade I was no longer fat; I had a great face. I had friends, but I still had problems. Rather than attempt to deal with them, they would call me a liar. It was difficult enough navigating the world without the faculty at my school making fun of me, and calling me a liar. My school was supposed to be one of the best public schools in the nation. So if I didn’t do well, it wasn’t their fault. Nor were the life long scars that were left.

Have always wondered what it feels like to call a thirteen year old a liar continually; and as a teacher feel that you’re only responsible for teaching the popular, non troubled kids. Do they just think; she’s odd, don’t have to care or worry about her? Or, it’s so frigging obvious that she doesn’t study why should I go out of my way for her? Or, all kids who don’t dress preppy, don’t smile all the time, look scared and sad deserve to be? Endless scenarios here.

When I entered college I couldn’t enjoy my popularity. I thought that I was dreaming it, and that I had committed horrible crimes that would be discovered. Had no idea what the horrible crimes were but I had become so used to being blamed that I just assumed I must have.

I never really got over it; but I functioned. I could easily charm people. Didn’t know why but I could. I was fun, friendly and always willing to take the blame for anything that went wrong.

Writing my book is a constant struggle for many reasons. One in particular is a wish to tell it from my perspective, yet let the reader see how other people perceived me. Not just the bad; but the good. It’s less of a struggle than it once was, but it’s still a struggle.

Our society, in general, is in crisis mode. People shouldn’t be rewarded for lying; Oprah, of all people, should know that.

If lying is supposed to be rewarded then we certainly have the right government.

Hope? How am I supposed to feel hope when it’s the people who fabricate stories who are rewarded? When the people who committed real crimes get the great book deals?

Ironic moment: I might write dark posts and and not seem to be a team player, but I truly feel happiness whenever anything good happens to anybody I know. Anybody. Don’t expect other people to feel the same way or to understand. Nor do I expect other people to understand why I believe that I must be true to my vision, and that vision includes the good, bad and ugly, but never making up stories to enhance my story

I don’t want to be depressing, but once again I woke up to a throbbing tooth ache– the pain can last up to a week. Hesitate to take the pain relievers because they leave me wiped out.

Yeah I was disappointed yesterday. I will live.

My standards are high; my blog sometimes even meets them. But I have never inflicted my standards onto others. Frey’s book is making me rethink this. Why do I constantly give other people– personally known and unknown to me, free passes, but inflict misery on myself.

I have struggled with the truth v lies my whole life. My parents didn’t tell me about the calls from my friends parents but I found out. To be branded as a liar at four isn’t easy to live with. Yet I had a mostly great childhood up until age ten. And I always was the eternal optimist; always thought that people would accept me tomorrow. I think of myself as an eleven, twelve and thirteen year old wanting so desperately to be accepted. Actually I did smile. I struggled to think of things to talk about at the school bus stop; and would begin to talk. That would give Janey Freedman and Linda Stein reason to urge Marty Friedman to throw me into the bushes.

Never told my parents. Hated Janey, Linda and Marty but even after I lost weight and began to be accepted I would make excuses for their behavior; it all fell back to me. I was weird; weird kids are fair game to be teased, taunted, thrown and talked about. I always did the forgiving; I was always understanding. I knew I was a bad person who deserved to be treated badly; yet I also knew that I was smart, funny, and deserved to be happy.

If teachers condoned the four “T”s then every adult would; I was doomed. When I stopped caring about being accepted, acceptance came. The 40 pound weight loss didn’t hurt either. I’m positive it only took six weeks to gain all the weight, in seventh grade, after we had moved. I know it took me six weeks to lose it in tenth grade. Remember every day of it. The last five and then more took longer, but I was only losing more weight because it was the Twiggy era.

Kind of knew a girl with breasts, a defined waist and hips couldn’t look like her. Have some of the clothes from then; my sister and I look at them in awe. She was supposed to be the skinny one, but my clothes, empirical proof, are in smaller sizes then hers were.

Have a muslin with ribbon dress I bought when I spent the summer in Oaxaca; it’s for a truly tiny person. Yet I wore it all the time, and no it hasn’t shrunk!

Our perceptions of ourselves can be so far off the mark. I had very heavy periods always; and was totally hormonal from the time I was nine, two years before the first one. I have written that there’s been a color coded alert system among my friends for decades before the terrorist ones. It ranged from:
Bright red; don’t even try to speak to her
Red: attempt to call her; don’t worry she won’t depress you because she won’t speak
Bright pink: have a conversation with her
Pink: ask her to do something; she will and be very snarky in a good way
Light Pink: she’s the true self she can only be up to ten days a month

That code was for my adulthood. Imagine being a twelve year old in 1963 when nothing was none about hormones. Everybody knew that period problems were in your head. Especially the gym teacher who morphed into the secretary in The Beverly Hillbillies Add learning disabilities and undiagnosed problems that were considered to be laziness, unwillingness, and resistance to being adopted. Try knowing that you’re right and attempting to explain how you feel to teachers and doctors and have most of them tell you the above.

The incredible things that happened to me in the later part of high school, began to peak at my first college and lasted felt great and were wonderful. Then one day my world began spinning out of control; had periods that lasted half the month, became dramatically underweight, and loved that one; tested for learning disabilities, found out I had so many I shouldn’t have been a tenth as successful as I was. There were the alphabet soup diagnoses and the “there’s something wrong but damned if we know what it is.”

I felt as if I were back in Fifth grade when my parents took me to NYU Medical Center for testing. The results were “inconclusive.” Don’t ask what that means have no idea, and called NYU the year I had the testing as a child. The records had been thrown out just the year before.

When I was an adult the problems weren’t put back onto me; everybody, with the exception of the learning disability testing psychologist treated me as a bright successful adult who had somehow overcome much. Some even acted in awe of me.

But I hung onto each word the testing psychologist said as I had never quite trusted my outer shell and had always expected to be discovered for a fraud

When I met my birth mother when I was 38, and she spent the weekend calling me “her mistake,” and didn’t want to be seen in public with me because I was her shame, her birth daughter who shouldn’t have been born, I knew each good year of my life had been the mistake. Yes my perceptions were off; but everybody knows how perceptive and insightful I was. People said that I was both; it was in all my work evaluations, so I really must have been a fraud.

Damn yes this is a contradiction. True contradictions are ones of perceptions and feelings. The ones that should send a red flag to people are contradications when a person answers a question already asked in a different way, with a different answer, gaps in story, always placing blame for not remembering on external forces and all variations of that.

People tend to judge all contradications as falsehoods when perceptions alter a story. I’m not sure that I know how to explain this properly. I have always known how to discern the two types of contradictions which is why I had to do all the temp project hiring at my job after the one for Summitt, but I hadn’t thought about this subject in depth until last night.

By condoning James Frey’s story, Oprah Winfrey did a horrible thing to all people who write in truth and in search of truth. After the oral surgery before this one I came home to a comment that said my life was devoid of any purpose. Upon thinking about it, yes the Aspergers might have made me overreact, but I’m glad that I did.

My life has always been about purpose, working for the better good, stepping out of the limelight to let another more deserving person have it. Never again; I am just as deserving as anbody else; and probably a lot more than James Frey. If we live in a society where truthtelling is frowned upon, and bravado stories are treated as the ideal, then I would stay in bed for the rest of my life.

As I have no desire to do that, and seem to be permanently glued to my computer, I am going to work; really work to make truthtelling acceptable. Not for pure motives anymore but because I deserve validation, which I get so much of from Courting, but the validation I mean will come with money since that seems to be the only validation that makes people take note, and I very much like money.

That will also be my vindication, as I’m tired of going out of my way so much to understand other people’s views. I’m tired of believing other people to be more worthy than I am because they don’t have my problems, but they also don’t have my advantages. Think that one is way stupid. Then I would become filled with rage when people who didn’t work as hard, didn’t do as good a job would say get the glory for a solution I had thought up, and did the majority of the work on.

I really believed that my memoir had a good chance. But when Oprah condoned James Frey she changed the rules, because every publisher wants the Oprah stamp of approval. Would love to be prove wrong.

Again, I’m not interested in empathy or sympathy.

I am interested in peoples feelings about lies in non-fiction because I do think it reflects a greater societal problem which as far as I’m concerned Oprah Winfrey just made herself part of.

Filed Under: mental health, my parents Tagged With: Adoption, my parents

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Comments

  1. jmfausti says

    January 14, 2006 at 2:03 am

    I think Frey gives a lot of people black eyes with his lies. The people who read his book and believed in it and him have been made to feel foolish. Most of them will get over it with no ill-effects. But, he’s also harmed people who are ethical and may be silenced or held up to undue or unwarranted criticism or suspicion.

    As far as memoir goes, your perceptions and memories may cloud or color the actual black and white facts of the subject situations. This is to be expected. Frey didn’t color his experiences, he created them. He didn’t, in any place in the book, allude to the fact that he changed names, or made composite characters. Instead, he raced to be in front of every camera possible and preached as gospel his lies and inventions.

    Keep up your work. This Frey thing will blow over. Who knows? It may make the memoir market more profitable. His books have jumped right back up to the top of the bestseller list because of all the publicity. He’s going to be rationalizing his actions all the way to the bank.

  2. Miz BoheMia says

    January 14, 2006 at 2:14 am

    Wow! I am loving these personal posts of yours. I have to admit that I would visit every once in a while but felt shy to comment and say hi! I don’t know why… You have felt like the cool kid of the block, too cool for me, and I was shy about popping in, maybe scared and feared rejection… so it is funny to read about your experiences… never would have imagined the cool kid of the block to sound so much like me… and you popped over and said hi to me!

    I was very thin as a child, rail thin, with frizzy hair. Frizzy because no one knew it was curly and so my mother made me brush it out and I looked like a freak. At 16, I discovered it was curly and put some gel in and oh my god the difference! I gained weight and then lost it, and though people reacted as though around a hottie, I still saw the plump girl I once was and the frizzy haired freak inside… went through anorexia at one point so put it all together and I can definitely relate to what you mean about our perceptions and view of ourselves, the distortions and fluctuations of these perceptions…

    Long comment, I know. I just wanted to say I understand. Being Pisces hasn’t helped. My highs are very high and my lows are hellish. Many times I can feel like a fish out of water and yet here, I feel at home…

    I love your words, am sorry you had to be so misunderstood by the inhabitants of this crazy planet of chaos and mayhem but thankful that you are here, with your words… a true gift and for that and for you this bohemian is grateful!

    Just keep doing what you are doing, follow your heart and your gut and your day will come when you get to show them all! You’ll see! And here we shall all be, cheering you on!

  3. Chandira says

    January 14, 2006 at 5:09 am

    Ooh, I wrote a post about honesty not being welcomed recently too! Absolutely, us honest folk are the lepers, aren’t we? lol

    Keep being honest Pia, some of us still love it.

  4. cat says

    January 14, 2006 at 6:56 am

    I read Frey’s book when it first came out and was – at the time – blown away by it’s gritty, harsh glare of the light of honesty look he took at his life…only to find out now that it’s all bullshit.

    How Oprah can condone, let alone praise someone presenting a work of fiction as reality, speaks to how rapidly our society is declining. The masses are without values today, beyond their worship of the all mighty dollar.

    As someone who has always stood against the crowd and popular/accepted opinion/doctrine in the interest of speaking the truth, I’m not surprised – but I am disgusted.

    It’s never easy to be the lone little boy, insisting the Emperor has no clothes – it’s arduous and f***ing lonely. Bill Maher captured the existance of a champion of the truth perfectly when he said: “If you tell the truth, you’re going to alienate people.”

    I read another quotation which read: “If you make people think they’re thinking, they’ll love you. If you make people think, they’ll hate you.”

    One of the most difficult things to do is being a witness to the truth; no one wants to be hated, no one wants to alienate their peers – that’s why most people uphold the status quo of agreeing with the accepted lies and/or telling people what they (think they) want to hear.

    I’m with you 100% in your loyalty to the truth Pia. I realized a long time ago that my integrity is more important than world wide acceptance.

  5. lisa says

    January 14, 2006 at 7:03 am

    interesting post. as a journalist, its easy to see the stephen glass writers of the world and wonder why lying is such a big deal. Embelishing stories doesn’t get people in trouble anymore, it gets them a book deal.

  6. Sar says

    January 14, 2006 at 7:29 am

    Your memoir is just that. Yours. So you should write as you think and feel and remember, without regard to another’s memoir so that the outlet can be specifically cathartic and ultimately rewarding for you.

    Now, your presence is requested madam Pia.

  7. Dawn says

    January 14, 2006 at 8:36 am

    Wow.

    I drove to NY today and just got back freom dinner with The Hubster where I had been talking to him about just this very thing.

    I read Frey’s book and when the Smoking Gun article came out I felt lied to and betrayed.

    He has touted that book as Non-Fiction not as Creative Non-Fiction.

    I was invested in his story and his pain.

    This revelation has cheapened it all for me and left me feeling like his bitter ex.

    If we were married and Catholic I would file for an annulment.

    Oprah should bloody well have stood up against it.

    I have lost a good deal of what little respect I had left for the woman.

  8. cooper says

    January 14, 2006 at 8:41 am

    You memoir is your mirror and your reflection is pure.

    I feel Oprah has done great things in her life but dislike the power of forced iconicity she has. I have felt rather nauseated when I look at her ever since she threw that king of exploitation, Doctor Phil, out there to suck the life out of everyone’s problem and take it to his bank.

  9. krome.obsession says

    January 14, 2006 at 8:55 am

    I think the truth is far more interesting than fabrications. But I say this from the perspective of someone who lives a life that reads like a drama series, from crazy stalker ex’s through to tragic sad endings of those I’ve loved. If I was to write about my life I don’t think there is anyone who would believe me, I may only be 24, but it seems that I attract unbelievable situations. One’s better left to the silver screen. I was the strange loner in school, a full figure “woman” at barely 10 years old (yes, hormone problems were the reason for this), I’ve gone from school drop out to Uni student studying eCommerce while dealing with 2 children (3 if you count my parter). I’ve lived on the streets, and in flash expensive penthouses. I even went through my own drug problem after being “attacked”. What makes this all interesting? The fact that it is the truth. It’s the real stories of heart felt pains and overcoming adversity that make us feel connected and able to relate to what the writers trying to convey. I guess this is why I write about all the strange things that happen to me in my blog, and even if it is a “negative” situation I write about it and my feelings. When I began writing I was worried I’d be laughed at and called a lier, but (other than my stalkers) I’ve received wonderful comments. While I’m only new to your blog, I’d love the opportunity to read your book.

  10. Doug says

    January 14, 2006 at 10:21 am

    This was Chapter I, by the way. A classic Pia memoir, and true.

  11. EsotericWombat says

    January 14, 2006 at 12:02 pm

    Amen, Pia.

    What I love about these posts is that I feel like I’m there with you, hearing you and clinging to your every word. And don’t underestimate the appeal of a compelling true story. Truth can have remarkable power due to its sheer rarity in the world.

  12. Shayna says

    January 14, 2006 at 6:07 pm

    Here, Here!

    When I read personal “memoirs” I automatically expect the truth… silly me!

    When I write my encounters, mine are always the truth except for giving people in my stories “different” names to help SAVE their idinity…

    BTW… I will say it again… YOU DO NOT NEED A STINKING BOB TO KNOW YOU ARE THE BEST AT WHAT YOU DO!!!!!!!!

    Well… it is 6:30a.m. here in TN… time to go back to the real world… ;(

  13. QueenBitch says

    January 14, 2006 at 6:55 pm

    I’m disappointed in Oprah too. I didn’t read the book, but am disgusted by any kind of carpetbagger like Frey. Brings out the cynic in all of us, and it’s sad.

  14. Princess Wild Cow says

    January 14, 2006 at 8:03 pm

    I, like you, have found that telling the truth can lead to accusations of lies. As a child this was debilitating. As an adult, infuriating. You should be very proud of your ability to communicate your life. I managed to turn some of mine into anecdotal memories that could be shared, and the rest into secrets that would never be spoken aloud.

  15. Janet says

    January 14, 2006 at 11:43 pm

    The other day a student in my class was stuck on how to write about his favorite place. He said he didn’t have one. So I told him, if all else fails, make it up. No one is going to check on the facts of a third grader’s story.

    But non fiction writing? Now that’s a whole different ballgame.

  16. StationeryQueen says

    January 15, 2006 at 1:31 am

    Creative non-fiction to me means to write non-fiction in a way that is extremely readable, with lots of picture words making the reader see what you’re saying. You know, good writing that isn’t like a textbook.

    James Frey is a fraud. Oprah Winfrey is, too.

  17. dddragon says

    January 15, 2006 at 5:20 am

    It makes me really, really mad that schools inflict so much damage on our most vulnerable citizens. Parents generally trust teachers to not hinder their children’s progress.

    Write from your heart. Sounds like you’re worrying a little too much about everything being 100% accurate. There’s a difference between a point of view and personal perception and outright lying.

  18. Daedalus says

    January 15, 2006 at 11:49 pm

    Sadly, truth is not something that is respected in this day and age. On the one hand, we have the biggest Liar of all sitting in the most powerful office in the world, and on the other, we have people who can’t even tell their simple life stories without making part of it up. Thank you, Pia, for you respect of Truth.

  19. The Fat Lady Sings says

    January 17, 2006 at 12:43 pm

    I think I disagree. Now – I haven’t read Frey’s book – not my cup of tea. I prefer whole life autobiographies – and that, in a way, is my point. Am I wrong, or was this book his story about drug addiction, and how he overcame it? Now – if it all was bullshit – no drugs, no addiction, no problems, pure fiction; than he perpetrated a fraud on the public and should be called on it. But I think its greyer than that. Now – I did read some of The Smoking Gun material – and the author seems to be a died-in-the-wool asshole. But his crime falls far short of what Glass or Blair did; and I think Doris Kearns Goodwin scads worse because she outright stole from her contemporaries and called it her own. Now – she still has a career – and I don’t think that’s right.

    But Frey – I am really conflicted about this. Has he admitted outright lying about the bulk of his book? Because, really – is there a difference between what he asserts, and say, a famous actor leaving out or downplaying certain relationships or affairs? Even if those affairs are documented elsewhere? It’s the truth – but maybe not the truth as the author sees it. A matter of perception, shall we say. Is that what’s up here? I also write about my life – and, except for revealing certain names, I talk about what happened – making a concerted effort to look at each situation from varying points of view. But it is my story – my life, colored by my emotion. If someone hurt me – they are not likely to be remembered with warmth. When I talk about my childhood – I am, at times, dealing with fractured memories – I was a solid year in therapy after those memories came crashing back. Sifting through both good and bad was difficult. I write about it now – because I need to, because it helps me to understand why.

    Perception – that’s the key. Some years back, my surviving sister and I had to deal with our father’s sudden, eventually fatal illness. Our psychotic brother showed up, and, in a fit of rage, tried to strangle my sister. She had always refused to acknowledge his addiction and mental illness – making use of her husband’s legal connections to constantly expunge his revolving criminal record. I thought she would face it now – after all, there were bruises on her throat to prove it. No. Initially, she worked with me to have him put in jail, but then her preferred blindness took over. The last time I spoke to her regarding this subject, she claimed the event never happened. He never tried to kill her. He was the sweet little cherub baby she wanted to remember; not the fulgurating monster he morphed into as an adult. The attack? A simple misunderstanding where harsh words were exchanged – nothing more.

    Who’s right here? I think I am, in saying he tried to kill her. She believed she was in the right by denying the attempt, because, as she asserted, murder wasn’t in his heart. Now – in my memoir – he should be locked up and the key thrown into Mt. Pele for all time. In hers, he’s simply a victim of our parent’s insanity, and, unable to handle the abuse, turned to alcohol and drugs to handle the pain. I don’t know – maybe I’m over analyzing, or obsessing. I’m sure Frey doesn’t need me to defend him. And what he did will not, in any way, detract from what you, or I and anyone else write about our lives, and how we managed to survive them. By the way – those few times I tried to tell adults what was going on inside my home as a child – I was labeled a liar as well. No one wanted to believe that kind of thing occurred in the 60’s – abuse just didn’t happen – and if it did, it was a ‘family matter’. So I know how important truth is, my dear.

    I guess what I’m saying is don’t worry for yourself – and as for Frey – he will sink or swim depending on just how much he fabricated. Me – I’m far more interested in the life of someone I give a damn about – like you, or Blogzie, or me; to be frank. I do understand your anger though. I just don’t think what he did will affect anyone’s interest in other works of that genre. Yes, like you, I thought about it – thought about his fucking it up for the rest of us – but what we do reflects our clearly stated individual truths. People will want to know, Pia; they will definitely want to know.

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