About Me

Courting Destiny doesn’t look like this anymore:

 We were a cover story! Once back in blogging’s ancient days.

I live in the South, not South Florida, a few blocks from the ocean, and two blocks from the main street. It’s called Main Street. Amazes me too.

I’m from New York. A Long Island girl, and proud of it now. Then I hated everything about the suburbs. Yet somehow I lived in a few great Long Island Sound towns after high school.

I was passionate about everything—from politics to love, oh sweet sad love–we do have an amazing history.

I moved to Manhattan when I was 25. And yes, was as passionate about my life in Manhattan–first the East 60’s off Fifth (rent stabilized studio mini-loft): then a small one bedroom coop on Riverside at 75th Street.

I have an incredible memory for things that happened to me or that I bore witness too. Probably because I had to train myself to have a visual memory.

If I seem to be all about place it’s because our place in the world shapes us into who we become. And even in the worst of days, I had a Nora Ephron view of New York.

I shaped my life into something amazing and will never be ashamed for any of it.

I had a front row seat to the changes in the city, country and the world, and invite you to come along on the journey back in time.

Eight years ago I found out the name for the slight neurological disorder I had figured out I had. After I stopped thinking I was bone sheet crazy. This was comforting. Then it wasn’t. Maybe it helped shape me. Maybe it didn’t.

Either way I spent my very prolonged youth having experiences and adventures because I thought that was what life was about.

Now I thank me for the memories.

And still love to travel. Still love to make new memories. The only song lyrics I can remember (and I love music) are “make new friends but keep the old….” as that’s the backdrop to my life.

Six years ago I bought and renovated a house. I’m the least handy person in the world! After I learned a house doesn’t come with a super, I settled in. For the first time in my life I felt complete. It’s an amazing feeling.

I’m writing a book. If you’re interested in publishing me, agenting me, editing me please get in touch. Or if you just want to say hello.

Comments meant to shoot daggers in my heart will be immediately deleted.

Go to archives “August 2004” if you want to begin with the first posts.